I i know how you feel. I've been out for 30 years and one day i come home from work and this is the letter i get.
Throughout the years after having come to know you through your marriage to my daughter you have been a very kind and thoughtful person, sometimes more than my son. I don't think that any mil could want a finer son than you. However , it is very unfortunate that i will have to change the way i relate to you in the future. As you are very well aware my loyalty to Jehovah is very important to me and comes before anything and anyone.
If i am in your home to see my grandchildren and daughter i will certainly give you respect. But i will not be able to socialize with you nor eat with you again. Your co-operation in this will certainly be appreciated. And if youwould rather that i not come to your home i will certainly understand that also and will comply accordingly in witch case they can come see me. So once again i want to say thank you very much for all the concern you have shown me in the past and maybe one day we will be able to communicate openly and without reservation, for you did become a son to me. With love your mom in law.
She has not been in my home since she wrote this 9/14/2002